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Gnight Gerrika :)
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I have SO many ambitions but I have NO motivation what so ever. I hate this so much, I don't know what's wrong with me.
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Don’t think too negatively but trust me, I know what you mean. I can relate. But it’s just a matter of trying to motivate yourself. Don’t necessarily rely on something or someone to motivate you but rely on yourself. Cause at the end of the day, the only person you can really trust is yourself. Don’t let yourself down. Pursue those ambitions and make it into reality :)


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so I talked to him and he's still denying it.
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It’s either you end things with him if you can’t get over it or you accept it.


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I've been 'talking' to this guy for a 1year&he always tells me how much he likes me&such. But I feel like there's this routine..we talk, then he 'cuts' me, then we talk again&so on&so forth. Found out he had been dating this girl&everytime I ask him, he denies it. The only thing is, he doesn't know I know... I swear this guy thinks I'm fucking stupid. And lately I've been snapping at him a lot cause I'm so frustrated b/c he keeps lying to me. I let go then catch feelings again..what2do?
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Instead of snapping on him without him knowing why, talk to him about it. Try not to argue about it but make it civil so that he’s calm and your calm and you can get your answers. Try to talk to him as soon as possible instead of prolonging things.


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Any advice about shaving, down there?
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Try not to shave when their hair is too short. Cause just like your legs, when you shave and the hair is too short, sometimes it irritates the skin and tugs on the ingrown hair which will end up hurting. So same thing applies to your area down there :)


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Does going to the gyno hurt?
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I don’t know, cause I haven’t gone.


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What is your skin care routine?
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Sadly, I don’t have a legitimate skin care routine. Lol. To be honest, I just use soap and water. I know it’s bad for your skin but I’ve been doing that for a pretty long time and my skin’s been perfectly fine with it. However I do use Cetaphil facial cleanser every now and then. OH! And I exfoliate my skin once a week with St. Ives facial scrub.


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How do you reccomend to lose weight? Dieting plans, workout routines, etc
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Well, for me, I’m currently doing the Insanity workout. It’s probably the most intense workout out there. But just do something that you can stick to and not give up on. Cause losing weight is all about consistency on keeping active and eating healthy.


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Is it like, neccessary that you get rid of all your ex's stuff? Cause he gave me some clothes as a gift and honestly I still really like wearing them, not because he gave them to me but because I like the clothes. I'm not friends with him anymore, we don't talk.
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It’s not necessary to get rid of all your ex’s stuff but if you’re in the process of getting over him and you’re having difficulty cause his stuff reminds you of him, then yeah, get rid of it. But if it’s like gifts or sentimental things that touched you on a personal level and it doesn’t really give you that feeling of missing him completely, I don’t see the problem of keeping them.


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My bf & I are in our mid-20s,known each other for quite some time and have been together for almost 2 yrs. For once, hes proved to both his family AND I that hes serious about us.Our 1st couple months together he was talking to other girls & It hurts when ppl ask how long we've been together cuz I dont really consider us "together" during that time. When we reminisce of our 1st year, those bad times are always thought of. We already talked bout it but I dont feel any better. What do I do now?
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Well, if you’ve already talked to him about it and you don’t feel any better then maybe there’s just something that you have to do to yourself, and by that I mean start forgetting about it and letting it go. Cause I mean after all it is all in your head and just a bad memory. But they fade away once they’re forgotten so what I suggest you start doing is just leaving it alone. The past is the past. It’s not much of a big deal now than how it was before, so don’t dwell upon that. Cause if you do then your relationship might be jeopardize over a silly past memory.


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where/what was your first job? :) whats a good place for teenagers with no experience to get their first job except babysitting or mcdonalds?
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My first job was bartending and serving tables at a private golf club :) I suggest you check out local restaurants, or even check out a private golf club too like me :)


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I remember saying goodnight used to be a nightly routine, when you went on this blog every day. I actually really miss it haha. It was like a required thing to do before i went to sleep. Well anyways gnight Gerrika :)
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AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW, THIS MADE ME SMILE SO MUCH! Honestly, till this day I’m still wondering who you are. But whomever you are, you’re awesome :) Always putting a smile on my face! Thanks for all the sweet “Goodnight messages” you used to give me :D <3


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[part 2] so basically what im tryna get at is do i tell him how i feel? hold off since he's in a relationship that he hasnt told me about? or should i just brush it off and hope it just goes away.2 years of not talking and we still act the way we use to has really got me thinking we could work this out. but maybe im wrong and just need to let go.
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In all honesty, I say you tell him how you feel. Or talk to him about this girlfriend that you suspect him to have. You might as well tell him, cause honestly, think about it, what do you have to lose? Him? But you’re still friends, so everything will ultimately be okay. But it is up to you and how comfortable you feel with things. Good luck tho!


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so, my exboyfriend and i broke up in 2009 didnt talk for two years but this past summer we became friends again. i was so sure that we could just be friends but when we started to hang out again, we started slipping back into our old ways and hanging out like we use to. im so comfortable with him and im definitely catching feelings. the thing is he's only home during break since we both go to college but in diff states. i think he has a gf but he hasnt told me about her. [this is part 1]
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My bf & his ex broke up over 2 years ago (being long distance) & they havent talked since. We've been together 2 yrs. I've asked and argued with him before to get rid of his ex gfs stuff, but he only got rid of things from other exs except of hers. And he claims that hes waiting for his gma to go to the P.I to send his old clothes there, but the rest of his family already donated their stuff elsewhere. Why is he holding on? I feel like hes never gna love me more or the same way as he did w/ her
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You can always talk to him and ask him about it instead of trying to figure it out yourself. Cause when you do that sometimes you end up thinking too much and making up things in your head that aren’t true. So if you’re comfortable enough, be straight up and talk to him yourself and ask him the question you want him to answer.